I am joyfully married, and I think incredibly happy — I somehow smack the jackpot and had gotten a good man with a feature that’s beautiful as hell â€” but basically’m getting completely honest, there is a great deal
I skip about being solitary
. I would personallyn’t keep my husband just to get back to that existence, but if I found myself solitary once more for reasons uknown, I would surely value these items far more than I did finally time:

1. 
   Teasing.
   
   If you are solitary, flirting is quite enjoyable and safe, but if you’re married, it’s like a pre-pre-cursor to cheating. Before, flirting had been simply an all-natural thing that I could do rather than care about because I becamen’t fastened down seriously to anyone, nevertheless now i must supervise my personal obviously flirtatious character therefore I do not provide some other men not the right feeling.
2. 
   Appreciating male interest.
   
   It was therefore good to enjoy male interest, now it just annoys me. Its nice knowing dudes nevertheless select me appealing though I’m a hitched woman, but, like, prevent it because you can’t have me personally in which he might strike you.
3. 
   Hooking up with whomever i’d like.
   
   I’m in no way whining regarding sex during my wedding, however in my personal hypothetical single again world, I would personallyn’t try to escape from good-looking guys which might like to engage in some extracurricular activities with me.
4. 
   Brunch.
   
   OMG, I miss brunch. Sunday days are no longer designated to nursing hangovers (because I don’t buy them a great deal these days) and reliving the week-end’s shenanigans. Sunday days have become for brunch with hubby, basically great, however the same.
5. 
   Women’ nights or vacations constantly.
   
   I’m sure that section of growing upwards means shifting from certain careless times during the the youthfulness… but, dammit I neglect all of them! Women evenings and eleventh hour insane weekend journeys happened to be the greatest. I might perhaps not bear in mind most how it happened during all of them (whoops!), but I’m sure they were fantastic.
6. 
   Spending my personal money nonetheless I want, even defectively.
   
   My better half does not supervise my personal spending, but because I know we are jointly in charge of crap, I have to in fact be careful that I really don’t overspend. #adultingsucks
7. 
   Maybe not providing a single f*ck about certainly not me personally.
   
   Being selfish was awesome… truly awesome.
8. 
   Keeping the house the way I are interested.
   
   Coping with another individual is difficult, but living with any you really love and respect gets even more challenging since it is your own joint room while need to make certain he’s delighted in it, also. But often, this means moving situations around from where i’d like them, and that’s frustrating AF.
9. 
   Everything becoming green.
   
   We have limited (study: enormous) thing for your shade pink. My engagement and wedding rings have pink stones included, but that’s as far as he’ll choose the marvelous color. I can use it, but it doesn’t exist in our residence. It kills me a tiny bit each day.
10. 
    Putting on whatever I Would Like.
    
    The guy does not manage my wardrobe and it has never said to evolve, but because I’m hitched and I also admire him, I’ve found my self dressing in another way to deflect interest as he is not about. Crop clothes, we’ll come-back for you personally eventually!